Thanksgiving

This year I’m particularly thankful for the people around me.

My neighbors, who we can count on for everything from taking care of our house while we’re gone to sharing advice about raising kids. Payton graduated in the middle of Covid-19. Graduation was cancelled. No one was going anywhere. I called on my neighbors and they showed up – eager and ready to create a celebration just for him.

My girlfriends, who are my essential support network. They’ve been by my side through life’s celebrations and challenges over the past 15 years. Thank you for the past, present and future.

My Dad. who is….my Dad. Despite being in my forties, I still find comfort knowing he’s there. If something went really wrong in life, I’d have him to go to – to hug me while I cry, to advise me through a problem, to hand me a martini after a tough day.

My Dad’s wife. For loving him and for loving my kids as a grandmother. I miss my Mom, and I’m grateful for you (it took a while for me to learn I can feel both at the same time).

My family – the Frampton/Augustine side. We’ll miss you this Thanksgiving! But we’re excited about your new adventure, and we wish you a safe and happy turkey day.

My family – the Wollmuth/Thornburgh side. For sharing funny, supportive, congratulatory text messages when we all need it. Celebrating our birthdays, wishing Happy Thanksgiving, announcing achievements. 

My sister. Who is, and always will be, my very best friend (and, on behalf of my kids, thanks for your chocolate chip cookies. They’re the best!)

And I’m grateful for my family. I’m happy to have my son home from college. He’s a sophomore year at the University of Portland, and I don’t know how many more of these Thanksgivings I’ll get.  I’m grateful my kids still want to play our family game – soccer or ultimate frisbee. Something to get some fresh air and exercise before our big Thanksgiving meal.

And for my husband, Chad. Who asked me for “two more minutes” to snuggle in bed before we got up today. 

What are you thankful for today?